Showing posts with label Memories of the past. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Memories of the past. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

The Difference a Teacher can Make - A True Story

One of my favorite teachers during my Primary years in education, Ma'am Zeny


Steve, a twelve-year-old boy with alcoholic parents, was about to be lost forever, by the U.S. education system. Remarkably, he could read, yet, in spite of his reading skills, Steve was failing. He had been failing since first grade, as he was passed on from grade to grade. Steve was a big boy, looking more like a teenager than a twelve year old, yet, Steve went unnoticed... until Miss White.
Miss White was a smiling, young, beautiful redhead, and Steve was in love! For the first time in his young life, he couldn't take his eyes off his teacher; yet, still he failed. He never did his homework, and he was always in trouble with Miss White. His heart would break under her sharp words, and when he was punished for failing to turn in his homework, he felt just miserable! Still, he did not study.
In the middle of the first semester of school, the entire seventh grade was tested for basic skills. Steve hurried through his tests, and continued to dream of other things, as the day wore on. His heart was not in school, but in the woods, where he often escaped alone, trying to shut out the sights, sounds and smells of his alcoholic home. No one checked on him to see if he was safe. No one knew he was gone, because no one was sober enough to care. Oddly, Steve never missed a day of school.
One day, Miss White's impatient voice broke into his daydreams.
"Steve!!" Startled, he turned to look at her.
"Pay attention!"
Steve locked his gaze on Miss White with adolescent adoration, as she began to go over the test results for the seventh grade.
"You all did pretty well," she told the class, "except for one boy, and it breaks my heart to tell you this, but..." She hesitated, pinning Steve to his seat with a sharp stare, her eyes searching his face.
"...The smartest boy in the seventh grade is failing my class!"
She just stared at Steve, as the class spun around for a good look. Steve dropped his eyes and carefully examined his fingertips.
After that, it was war!! Steve still wouldn't do his homework. Even as the punishments became more severe, he remained stubborn.
"Just try it! ONE WEEK!" He was unmoved.
"You're smart enough! You'll see a change!" Nothing fazed him.
"Give yourself a chance! Don't give up on your life!" Nothing.
"Steve! Please! I care about you!"
Wow! Suddenly, Steve got it!! Someone cared about him? Someone, totally unattainable and perfect, CARED ABOUT HIM??!!"
Steve went home from school, thoughtful, that afternoon. Walking into the house, he took one look around. Both parents were passed out, in various stages of undress, and the stench was overpowering! He, quickly, gathered up his camping gear, a jar of peanut butter, a loaf of bread, a bottle of water, and this time...his schoolbooks. Grim faced and determined, he headed for the woods.
The following Monday he arrived at school on time, and he waited for Miss White to enter the classroom. She walked in, all sparkle and smiles! God, she was beautiful! He yearned for her smile to turn on him. It did not.
Miss White, immediately, gave a quiz on the weekend homework. Steve hurried through the test, and was the first to hand inhis paper. With a look of surprise, Miss White took his paper. Obviously puzzled, she began to look it over. Steve walked back to his desk, his heart pounding within his chest. As he sat down, he couldn't resist another look at the lovely woman.
Miss White's face was in total shock! She glanced up at Steve, then down, then up. Suddenly, her face broke into a radiant smile. The smartest boy in the seventh grade had just passed his first test!
From that moment nothing was the same for Steve. Life at home remained the same, but life still changed. He discovered that not only could he learn, but he was good at it! He discovered that he could understand and retain knowledge, and that he could translate the things he learned into his own life. Steve began to excel! And he continued this course throughout his school life.
After high-school Steve enlisted in the Navy, and he had a successful military career. During that time, he met the love of his life, he raised a family, and he graduated from college Magna Cum Laude. During his Naval career, he inspired many young people, who without him, might not have believed in themselves. Steve began a second career after the Navy, and he continues to inspire others, as an adjunct professor in a nearby college
Miss White left a great legacy. She saved one boy who has changed many lives. I know, because I am the love of his life.
You see, it's simple, really. A change took place within the heart of one boy, all because of one teacher, who cared.
My Elementary School teachers with my beloved mother (center)
© Jaye Lewis, 2003 - Used with permission from author (inspire21)

Thursday, August 4, 2011

EASY VS DIFFICULT

Easy is to judge the mistakes of others Difficult is to recognize our own mistakes
Easy is to talk without thinking Difficult is to refrain the tongue
Easy is to hurt someone who loves us. Difficult is to heal the wound…
Easy is to forgive others Difficult is to ask for forgiveness
Easy is to set rules. Difficult is to follow them…
Easy is to dream every night. Difficult is to fight for a dream…
Easy is to show victory. Difficult is to assume defeat with dignity…
Easy is to admire a full moon. Difficult to see the other side…
Easy is to stumble with a stone. Difficult is to get up…
Easy is to enjoy life every day. Difficult to give its real value…
Easy is to promise something to someone. Difficult is to fulfill that promise…
Easy is to say we love. Difficult is to show it every day…
Easy is to criticize others. Difficult is to improve oneself…
Easy is to make mistakes. Difficult is to learn from them…
Easy is to weep for a lost love. Difficult is to take care of it so not to lose it.
Easy is to think about improving. Difficult is to stop thinking it and put it into action…
Easy is to think bad of others Difficult is to give them the benefit of the doubt…
Easy is to receive Difficult is to give
Easy to read this Difficult to follow
Easy is keep the friendship with words Difficult is to keep it with meanings

Friday, November 5, 2010

King and Lesing Through the Years

Lolo Tangking and Lola Lesing's Golden Wedding Anniversary

( Felicidad Cayetano Gamo and Tancredo Aungon Fajutnao)


          What can be a more precious moment than the time when your better half enters your life? Marriage is considered to be one the most special occasion when two individuals get committed in a relationship forever. This Year, my Lolo Tangking and lola Lesing will be celebrating their Golden wedding anniversary.
         It will truly be an affair to remember because not many people make it through the first five years, let alone ten times that number. When lolo Tangking and Lola Lesing first met, Lolo lived in San Andres Romblon and Lola lived in Roma, Mansalay Oriental Mindoro.  Lolo was a small scale businessman then while lola was a simple barrio girl. ‘‘It has brought me joy and love that since our marriage, your lola Lesing has always understood the significance of our relationship, and in our family life, as she stood by me, she has been very devoted to the members of our family,’’ Lolo Tangking told me.

            They truly deserve to celebrate their fruitful marriage life. Imagine they have managed to survive a half century of life's ups and downs together. Over that period of time our grandparents builds a legacy that can't be measured in material possessions, but rather the lives they have touched through their love and faith. Learning from their story, the celebration will be a recreation of their love affair when they began their life together some 50 years ago.
       They have three children: Elcana (School Principal), Jemale (Agriculturist, Gov’t Employee) and Tancredo, Jr. (Electrician, OFW); 17 grandchildren; and 1 great-grandchildren. They raised and educated their children well and actively involved in overseeing their grandchildren.
This event is a reminder of the day on which our lolo and lola united in love to walk through the path of life with each other at all times, be it good or bad. (Shernan)

Friday, September 3, 2010

Anti-Dengue Information Drive


In an effort to prevent the surging number of dengue cases in our Barangay, I conducted  school health information drive on Wednesday (September 1, 2010) to mobilized the National perspective  in stepping up its goal on dengue prevention and control.
Salvacion Elementary School principal in Maliwanag, Mansalay Oriental Mondoro, Mrs. Elcana Gamol along with the teachers are actively joining and supporting the  information drive following the surging number of dengue cases in the country, particularly in our area where 2 mortalities were reported.
The targeted participants in the drive are school teachers and pupils, particularly those children living in the remote area where mosquitoes are prevalent.








Friday, February 5, 2010

Learning From Experience



When you're biking down a gravel-strewn road and you slam into a tree, you learn something. You learn for example, not to look at the cute girls or guys on the sidewalk, but instead pay attention to the road. When you're strutting leisurely along the corridors of your school and you fall flat on your butt, you learn something. You learn not to daydream while you're walking to the library.

Obviously, we can learn lots of things from our everyday experieces. it may not be everyday that we experience something extraordinary. But it's everyday that each of us is molded into what we will be tomorrow.  



Once memories have remained and years have formed every fabric of your being, you realize that growing up has served its purpose.